Monday, November 16, 2009

big, honkin', deep thoughts

So this morning I read a book about Thanksgiving to the girls. There are things that public schools do that sometimes homeschoolers over look..like teaching the months,or days of the week lol. They aren't so revelent in my life so it hit me last year my little kids didn't know them! How embarassing. Fire safety,stranger danger and roman numerals also things that are easily overlooking in an official 'teaching' sense. They know all the religious meaning and siginificance to our holidays and they know Thanksgivingis about thanksfulness. However, they were woefully ingnorant about the history behind the first thanksgiving. So to the library we go for a week and a half worth of info on thanksgiving, pilgrams, colonists and native americans. Today we read a cut little book that covered some info on thanksgivings around the world and then focused primarily on the colonists and such. There was a line in the book that said that the Pilgrims left England because of a disagreement with their church leaders. I mean thats BIG. They got ticked at the church and went and founded a whole country! They clearly were not United Pentecostals. Pentecostals would still be in England murmuring,bitter and angry at the church but convinced that to go contrary to leadership would send them straight to hell. They couldn't go somewhere else,they'd still be there waiting on a transfer letter from their pastor.

6 comments:

  1. *snort*

    That's *always* bothered me. If I'm in an unhealthy church, with an unhealthy pastor, I have to go to the unhealthy pastor and ask permission to go to another church...? I don't think so..

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  2. So funny! It's crazy the strength that had to take to get on a boat with all the diseases and sickness that came with traveling by boat back then to go to a land unknown all over a church dispute! There are so many churches in phoenix that if we had to change churches we'd just have to take a drive!

    Thanks for stopping by Blabbing About Blogs! Hope to see you back soon!

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  3. I really enjoyed your blog. My family has left our church. We actually did not go to church for a year, and are now trying out a new one. We never announced that we were leaving. We had a disagreement with another member and left. The sad thing is: our pastor did not even call us for one year after we were gone. We attended there for 7 years! Our church was very small. I don't see how our leaving went unnoticed for so long. I think the pastor did not realize it until he was sending out the yearly tax papers. Now I find it hard to give myself totally to the new church or if I even want to get close to anyone there. I enjoy reading this blog, because I don't really know anyone who else has gone through something similar.

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  4. Anon. I am sorry your hurting. It is a painful thing to leave a church under difficult circumstances. Its a grieving process I am finding. I'm glad your enjoying the blog,thats why I am writing it. This is something people don't want to talk about. when I left our church I felt very alone and realized that people just aren't willing to share about it.
    I'll pray for you and you pray for me :0)

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  5. Anon, I've been there too. Multiple times unfortunately. :(

    I'm in a wonderful, amazing church right now and I'm having the same trouble with letting myself get close to anyone. It's really difficult to do that when you remember how things went before.

    Amy, it's definitely a grieving process and that grief can come back and haunt you at strange times and in strange ways.

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